Abound

There is a difference between a thermometer and a thermostat that most of us never give a second thought. A thermometer tells you the temperature of the room. It reads what is already there, adjusts to whatever surrounds it, and reports back faithfully. It is reactive by design; in other words, it waits to be acted upon. The room decides what the thermometer says. A thermostat does something different entirely. It doesn't adjust to the room; rather, it sets the temperature. It decides what the room will become and then works quietly, persistently, without fanfare, until the room catches up. It doesn't wait for conditions to improve before it does its job. A thermostat makes the first move. Jesus had a word for the thermostat kind of person. He called them peacemakers . And He said they would be called children of God . Now here is something worth pausing on, because the promise attached to this beatitude is unlike any of the others. The other beatitudes talk about the kingdom of heaven, seeing God, or receiving mercy. But this one claims they will be called children of God. And that was not some throwaway compliment. It meant something in the first century, and it means something today. I was watching one of my boys play baseball one evening, standing along the third base line with a buddy of mine. Out of nowhere, he looked over at me and grinned. "You can't deny those kids", he said. "Every time I see them I see you." That is what Jesus is describing. A family resemblance so clear that nobody has to be told. Which means that if peacemakers are the ones who look like their Father — then the central characteristic of God must be peacemaking itself. The whole sweep of Scripture points exactly there. A God who keeps moving toward people who keep turning away. A God who initiates, absorbs, returns, and offers again. A God who, even when the door keeps closing, finds another way to knock. That is the family business. And Jesus is inviting us into it. But we need to be careful about what we think peace means. When most of us hear peace, we think about what is absent. The absence of conflict or the absence of noise. The quiet that settles in when everyone has finally stopped fighting. But that is not what Jesus meant. The word He used for peacemaker doesn't appear anywhere else in all of Scripture — it is unique to this one beatitude — and at its root is the Hebrew understanding of shalom . And shalom is not about absence. Shalom is about presence. Shalom is the presence of wholeness and the presence of grace . It is about a restoration to the way it should always meant to be. Shalom is taking what was broken and making it whole. We could translate this beatitude, “ Blessed are the whole-makers" - the one who moves toward broken things and offers restoration. Now those who are “ whole-makers ” or “ peacemakers ” are not naive about how broken things are. They have simply decided that the broken thing is worth moving towards. They are not passive; they are like a thermostat, setting the temperature. Peacemakers make the first move. I know something about what that costs. My father left when I was young. He left without a goodbye, a note, or a warning. He was just gone, the way a foul ball disappears into the stands and doesn't come back. For a long time I didn't think much about it. You can't grieve what you don't yet understand. But years later things changed for me as I was leading a group through Philip Yancey's book What's So Amazing About Grace? One of the chapters was titled "Breaking the Chain of Ungrace, " in which Yancey discusses what it takes to break the cycles of resentment, blame, and pain. Something in it reached into my chest and wouldn't let go, so I made a decision. I was going to be a thermostat and move toward the broken thing. I found him on the internet along with his office number. His secretary answered and told me I must have the wrong number — Mr. Vershel didn't have any children. But I didn’t quit. I sent an email carefully written, making sure that there was no blame or judgment - - just a son wanting to know his dad. And I waited and waited and…then I sent it again. And again nothing. Years later I found him on Facebook. So of course I sent a message and a friend request. And again silence. Three attempts and three doors closed. Three times the same basic message: you do not exist. “ Blessed are the peacemakers ”, Jesus says. He does not say, "Blessed are the peacemakers whose peace is accepted." I don't know exactly how to say what happened next without it sounding like something it isn't. There was no reconciliation. No phone call where everything finally got said. No moment where the distance collapsed, and we found each other on the other side of it. He died. And somehow — I still don't fully understand the path it traveled — his ashes ended up with me. There is a box in my closet that holds what is left of him. Right next to the box with his old baseball glove — a left-handed glove I found years later, a glove that never fit me, from a game we never played together. One box for the man who left. One box for the life we never had. I did not plan to become his keeper. But here we are. And I have thought about this more than I can explain — the man who denied having children ended up in the closet of one of the children he had. The peacemaker became the keeper of the one who would not make peace. I don't think that is an accident. I think that is shalom working in ways I cannot fully trace. Because shalom doesn't always look like resolution. Sometimes it looks like faithfulness in the face of rejection. Sometimes it looks like a thermostat that keeps working even when the room never warms up. Sometimes it looks like a son who keeps his father's ashes because there was nobody else to keep them — and found, in that strange and quiet act, something that felt less like loss and more like grace. The Unlikely Altar for this beatitude is not the moment peace is finally achieved. It is the moment it is offered anyway. It is the phone call you make and the email you send into the silence. It is the move you make toward the broken thing — not because you are certain it will work, but because you are a chip off the old block of a God who never stopped moving toward you. Maybe that relationship in your life never gets resolved the way you hoped. Maybe the door stays closed. Blessed are the peacemakers still. Not because the peace was accepted. But because they looked like their Father when they offered it. May we know, may we remember, may we never forget — we come from a God who is in the business of moving toward broken things. That is the family resemblance. That is what people are supposed to see when they look at us. Be the thermostat.

Not far from where Jesus sat down to teach, there were theaters. The region of Galilee in the first century lived inside a broader Greco-Roman world, and that world loved spectacle. Open-air theaters with stone seats carved into hillsides and stages wide enough to hold a crowd’s attention were scattered throughout the landscape around the very places Jesus walked and taught. The people who followed Him up that hillside didn’t have to imagine what a theater looked like because they had seen the performances for themselves. They understood the craft of it all. And they understood the masks. In the ancient world, actors wore them. Large, exaggerated masks that told the audience who the character was before a single line had even been spoken. The hero wore one face, while the villain wore another. And the audience? Well, they never saw what was underneath the mask. The actor himself could be exhausted, grieving, uncertain, or afraid, but none of that mattered once the mask was in place. What the crowd saw was the performance, and what the crowd got was the carefully constructed version presented to them under the lights. Those actors were called hypokrites . Now, here is something most people never hear in church. In the first century, that word was not originally an insult. A hypokrite was simply a performer, someone trained and respected for the ability to step into a role convincingly enough that the audience believed every word. The problem was not the theater. The problem came later, when Jesus looked at the religious leaders of His day and realized they had started doing the same thing with faith. He wasn’t calling them names as much as He was making a diagnosis. “You have become performers,” He was saying. “You have learned how to wear the right face in public. You know the right prayers, the right language, the right gestures, the right places to stand so people can see you. You have become so skilled at performing holiness that somewhere along the way you may have forgotten the difference between the mask and the man underneath it.” That crowd on the hillside would have heard those words differently than we do now. They would not have heard a simple moral scolding. They would have heard a surgeon naming the wound out loud. So when Jesus says, “Blessed are the pure in heart,” He never actually stops to define what that means. There is no checklist attached. No seven habits of the spiritually successful. No formula for finally becoming impressive enough for God. He simply says the words and lets them settle over the crowd like a question hanging in the air. Because honestly, who among us is pure in heart? Who among us has nothing hidden, nothing managed, nothing rehearsed? Who among us has never worn a face that looked calmer, kinder, stronger, or more faithful than what was really happening underneath? But if you keep following Jesus through the Gospels, something begins to come into focus. Again and again, His sharpest words are aimed not at broken people, but at performative ones. He tells the Pharisees they are polishing the outside of the cup while the inside remains untouched. He watches one man stand in the temple, praying a polished, carefully constructed prayer about all the ways he is better than everyone else around him. Then Jesus notices another man standing at a distance, unable even to lift his eyes toward heaven, simply whispering, “God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” And Jesus says, “That one. That one went home justified.” Augustine once said that the real contrast in this Beatitude is not between purity and impurity, but between purity and hypocrisy. I think he was right, because a pure heart is not a perfect heart. It is not a heart that has finally climbed high enough to escape the mess of being human. It is not a heart that has figured out how to impress the room. A pure heart is simply an honest one. It is the person who finally grows too tired to keep performing and instead comes to God carrying what is actually true. And I think that is what the people on the hillside found so startling. Most of them could never keep up with the religious performance expected of them anyway. They were fishermen and laborers and tax collectors and women who had spent years being quietly reminded that they were falling short. The distance between who they were and who they were supposed to be felt enormous. They had been taught, directly and indirectly, that holiness belonged to people who performed better. Then Jesus sat down, looked directly at the people who could never quite keep the mask in place, and said, “Blessed.” I imagine some of them exhaled for the first time in years. I think about this often when I sit with families in grief. There is a version of grief that knows exactly how to behave in public. The right words get spoken. The right face gets worn. Everything is managed with quiet dignity, and I understand why. Some pain feels too personal to spill open in front of a room full of people. But every now and then, somebody stops performing. A daughter who held herself together through the visitation and funeral quietly breaks down at the graveside. A son who has not cried in decades suddenly reaches for his mother’s hand and cannot let go. A widow finally stops answering the question, “How are you doing?” with polite reflexes and simply says, “I honestly don’t know.” And those moments always feel holy to me. Not because composure is wrong. But because in those moments, there is no performance left. People let their masks slip, and suddenly something true stands in the open air between everybody who is present. I think that is what Jesus meant. Not that God only meets us when we fall apart, but that God has never needed our performance in order to love us in the first place. He meets us most deeply in the places where we stop pretending long enough to be known. The Unlikely Altar for this Beatitude is difficult to photograph because it is not really a place. It is the quiet moment, often unexpected and sometimes a little uncomfortable, when you finally grow weary of carrying the mask. Maybe it happens in your car after you have held yourself together all day. Maybe it happens in the middle of a conversation where something inside you simply quits trying to sound okay. Maybe it happens late at night when the performance becomes too heavy to keep carrying for another hour. That moment, strange as it sounds, may be holy ground. Not because you finally got your life together, but because you finally stopped pretending that you had. May we know, may we remember, may we never forget: God has never loved the mask more than the person underneath it. Take off the mask. That is all. Just take it off.